How To Talk To Your Teen About Drugs And Alcohol
New research from SAMHSA shows parents who talk openly with their teens about substances cut their child's risk of use in half.
Here’s how to start the conversation:
1. Ask "What do your friends say about drinking?" instead of "Do you drink?"
2. Point out alcohol or drug use in TV shows and ask what they think
3. Share a real story about someone who got help for substance use
4. Talk about brain science - how drugs change the teen brain quickly (see news article below)
Use daily moments like driving to school or watching TV to bring up the topic naturally. Make sure your teen knows they can come to you with questions or concerns without fear of punishment.
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Today is Law Enforcement Appreciation Day. We extend our heartfelt thanks to our officers and all law enforcement personnel across the country for their dedication, bravery, and tireless efforts in keeping our communities safe. Your service and sacrifice do not go unnoticed, and we are grateful for all you do.
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Praying daily for your safety, protection, service and bravery 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for your wonderful service and all that you do!
Thank you all for your good work in trying turbulent times.
Very grateful - God Bless !!
From the past,to the present and to the future, I would like to say thank you very much from the Buck family even though we don't live in town anymore, and I would like to thank the professionals you all have become, please keep up the great work you all do and let's be safe out there,, once again thank you all very much
Thank you all so much for your dedication & service!!! I am so proud of each and everyone of you! ❤️🙏🖤🇺🇲💙
Thank you for protecting our town.
Thank you for your service
You guys are truly the best! Thank you all!
Thank you so much for all that you all do!
Much respect to USR PD as well as Dispatch!!
From The Callaghan Family...🙏💙🙏💙
Thank you.
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
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Congratulations to the new members of the Upper Saddle River Police Department! Last night, Francesco Negrini and Gregory Pink were sworn in as Police Officers in front of a 'standing room only' crowd of friends and family members. We wish these two young men the very best as they embark on their law enforcement careers.
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Congratulations to you both! Welcome to USR
Congratulations to both.
Congratulations and stay safe. This town is so lucky to have such a wonderful Police Department!!!!!
Congratulations and stay safe Thank you all for your continued service
Congratulations, stay safe and thank you for your service!
Congratulation and welcome to both of you. Thank you USR PD for making and keeping URS a great and safe place to live.
Congrats Greg. Following in dad’s footprints.
Congratulations officers!
Congratulations . Stay safe .
Congratulations - God Bless 🙏
Congratulations to both ❤️
Congratulations!! So happy for you Gregory Pink!
Congratulations Gregory !!! So proud of you!!!!!
Congratulations!!
Congratulations!
Congrats and thank you!
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Over the past couple years the State of New Jersey has seen a dramatic increase in residential burglaries. A quick internet search reveals numerous articles and videos showing occupied residential home burglaries and car thefts. Criminals involved in these burglaries are looking for valuables such as cash, jewelry, high end clothing, as well as keys for motor vehicles. The New Jersey State Police recorded 11,258 burglaries in 2021 and 13,377 in 2022, a nearly 19% increase.
In an effort to combat burglaries in New Jersey, especially home invasions, which have become more common, two new classifications of burglary, with the goal of deterring people from committing such crimes was recently enacted. Home invasion burglary now qualifies as a first-degree crime and residential burglary is categorized as a second-degree crime. The bipartisan bill used to facilitate these changes by increasing penalties for burglaries cleared the Assembly and passed the Senate unanimously had was signed by the Governor back in October.
• The bill creates a new criminal charge of home invasion burglary that would see offenders jailed for between 10 and 20 years. There will be a minimum 85% term of parole ineligibility for burglars who harm, threaten to harm, or are armed during the course of a home invasion.
• A separate residential burglary charge created by the bill carries jail sentences of between five and 10 years for offenders who commit a residential burglary unarmed, with the same period of parole ineligibility unless the suspect can prove by a preponderance of evidence that no one was in the home at the time of the crime.
• The bill also allows juveniles charged in home invasions involving firearms to be tried as adults.
Bill S3006/3204 can be reviewed by using the following link: www.njleg.state.nj.us/bill-search/2024/S3006
The steeper penalties should help to reduce property crimes by serving as a deterrent to would-be home invaders holding them accountable for their crimes.
These new charges will definitely help law enforcement and prosecutors going forward. Even with the passage of this new legislation we all must still remain vigilant in our efforts to reduce our chances of becoming a victim of this type of crime. Below are some helpful hints and strategies to use:
1) Make your home look occupied even if you are not really there!
2) Make sure you lock all doors and windows whether you are home or not.
3) Lock all cars that are parked outside. Burglars will use garage door openers to access your garage to steal motor vehicles and possibly enter your home.
4) Have adequate exterior lighting. Motion-sensitive lights are recommended
5) Always activate your alarm, even if you are just going out for a short time.
6) Security cameras and Ring cameras provide useful information and/or evidence for burglary and other types of crimes.
7) Master bedrooms and bathrooms are often the primary target for a burglar. Consider keeping valuables hidden in other areas of the house.
8) Lock balcony doors and windows. Over the past few years we have seen burglars entering homes through the second floor.
9) Be mindful of surveillance cameras being used by burglars. These devices are placed outside your property to blend in with a home’s outdoor landscaping to monitor movements to and from the home before attempting the burglary.
10) Keep a detailed inventory of your valuable possessions, including a description of the items, date of purchase and original value, and serial numbers, and keep a copy in a safe place away from the home—this is a good precaution in case of fires or other disasters. Make a photographic or video record of valuable objects, heirlooms, and antiques. Your insurance company can aid in making and keeping your inventory.
11) Be aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts. If you see something that “feels wrong” at your neighbor’s house or on your block, do not doubt yourself! Call the police immediately. Numerous crimes are solved by the actions of a “concerned citizen”.
Please call the Upper Saddle River Police Department with any questions or concerns. We wish you a happy and healthy New Year.
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I'm not sure 19% qualifies as a "dramatic" increase – roughly equal to going from 5 of something to 6 of something. But in any case these are great tips!
Hires more racist goons. No one scared of yall trust that
Happy New Year! Remember, buzzed driving is drunk driving. Stay safe—use a designated driver or rideshare!
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Support Your Teen During Holiday Stress
While winter break means time off school, many teens struggle with the season's pressures, social demands, and disrupted routines. The good news is you can help them cope.
Watch for these signs your teen might need extra support:
Changes in sleep patterns despite being on break
Withdrawing from family activities
Increased anxiety about returning to school
Avoiding usual friend groups or activities
Spending excessive time alone in their room
Changes in eating habits during holiday gatherings
Small ways to help:
Keep regular daily routines even during break
Plan quiet moments between holiday events
Create space for them to connect with friends
Listen without judgment if they seem overwhelmed
Model healthy boundaries at family gatherings
Make time for one-on-one conversations
Most importantly, validate their feelings.
The "most wonderful time of the year" can feel anything but wonderful for teens managing social pressures, academic stress, and emotional challenges.
www.samhsa.gov/mental-health/seasonal-affective-disorder
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Merriest Blessed Christmas and Happy Healthy Prosperous New Year to All 🙏🏻🎄🎅🏻🧑🏻🎄🎶 God continue to Protect & Bless you and your Families!!! Stay Safe and Stay Blessed!! Thank You for all that you do keeping us all safe!
Happy Holidays! Thank you for your service and support to our community!
🎄☃️❄️🙏🎁🛷🍭🍬Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year To The Best of the Best...Thank You for All You Do For The Callaghan Family 🎄☃️❄️🙏🎁🛷🍭🍬
Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday to all. 🎄🎅🏻🎉
Same to all of you.
The best
Happy Holidays! Thanks for keeping the community safe!
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays 🎄
Happy Holidays!
Merry Christmas guys and happy holidays, and let's be careful out there
Merry Christmas!🎄 🙏🏻
Call my phone again tough guy. Sgt spina you think you a bully huh? Call my phone again bully you not a bully you need to hit the gym if you think you a bully. Racist cowards come embarrass me at my job and think that’s ok I’m here come say it to my face racist goons you ain’t tough I
(UPDATE: Dogs have been located and reunited with their owners)
We are currently looking for two missing black Labrador Retrievers named Emmet and Moose, they were last seen in the area of Ripplewood Drive. If anyone has seen them please contact the Upper Saddle River Police Department at (201) 327-2700
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A big thank you to the Petrone Family for the delicious lunch yesterday and to the Muslim Families of USR for the wonderful breakfast today. We truly appreciate your generosity and support!
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A big thank you to Stein's Gourmet Cafe in Montvale for treating today's day shift to a delicious breakfast!
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You can juggle the Parkway, Turnpike, and a Wawa run, but texting while driving? Not even a Jersey driver’s got time for that! Keep your hands on the wheel and eyes on the road. ! #SafeRoadsNJ
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We are aware of the drone sightings in the area.
To report suspected UAS/ drone incidents, please call the FBI "800-CALLFBI" or "800-225-5324" line via telephone to reach the National Threat Operations Center (NTOC) tip line or go to tips.fbi.gov/home
Please DO NOT call 911 emergency lines unless it is an emergency
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Winter weather is rolling in, so keep your eyes all around! Light up the road with your headlights to increase visibility and avoid any slippery surprises on your drive! #SafeRoadsNJ
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These items were left behind at the tree lighting event at Borough Hall this past weekend. If any of these belong to you, please contact the USRPD to claim them.
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On Sunday, December 8, 2024, Chief Rotella attended the Bergen County Police Chiefs' "Holiday Wreath Ceremony for Our Heroes" at the Paramus Veterans Home in New Jersey. This annual ceremony honors and commemorates the sacrifices of over 80,000 deceased Bergen County veterans and all individuals who have served in the armed forces. Following the ceremony, a holiday wreath was presented to each Bergen County Police Chief for display in their respective municipalities. During this festive season, we encourage everyone to take a moment to remember and express gratitude to the veterans in our community for their dedicated service.
The mission of the Bergen County Police Chiefs Foundation is to identify and address the needs of active and retired U.S. military personnel in Bergen County, along with their families, providing financial support as needed. Additionally, the foundation seeks to identify and support charitable, educational, and financial initiatives for individuals and groups requiring assistance.
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Stay sharp and stay safe. Let’s celebrate our older drivers on the road this Older Driver Safety Week! Experience matters, safety is key. #OlderDriverSafetyWeek #SafeRoadsNJ
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Yes master this lil n word monkey will dance for you. That’s what you like to hear I bet 🐒 🕺
Department full of wanna be racist thugs hiding behind badges typical Jersey county think they slave owners
The Upper Saddle River PD has been made aware that individuals are spoofing our main line and calling requesting address information purporting to be a police officer from a New Jersey agency investigating a stolen car. In the event you receive a call from our phone number and feel something is off, disconnect the call and contact our phone number to ensure that you were speaking with an actual member of the Upper Saddle River PD.
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Simply getting older doesn’t mean it’s time to hang up the keys! But staying safe behind the wheel does mean monitoring changes in overall health. Learn how medical conditions can impact driving:
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Road Safety Topics Road Safety Bicycle Safety Child Safety Teen Driving Older Drivers Motorcycle Safety Pedestrian Safety School Bus Safety Older Drivers Language: English Español Overview If you are...0 CommentsComment on Facebook
www.nj.com/weather/2024/11/njs-burn-ban-is-lifted-but-fire-officials-say-we-still-need-to-be-care...
N.J.‘s burn ban is lifted, but fire officials say we still need to be careful
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Lighting any open fires within or adjacent to wooded areas was not allowed under the restrictions with some limited exceptions.0 CommentsComment on Facebook
USR Alert: This is an important traffic advisory from the Upper Saddle River Police Department:
West Saddle River Road will be closed in-between Robin Ridge Road and Sparrowbush Road for pole maintenance. Please use an alternate route to access the surrounding streets until further notice.
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USR Alert: This is an important traffic advisory from the Upper Saddle River Police Department:
The annual USR Thanksgiving Day 5K Run will take place on Thursday, November 28th 2024. For the safety and security of all participants, the following roadways will be closed from 8:30am until approximately 9:45am.
• West Saddle River Road between Lake St and Old Stone Church Road.
• Old Stone Church Road entire length
• East Saddle River Road between Old Stone Church Road and Lake St.
• Lake St from East Saddle River Rd to West Saddle River Rd
If you live on one of the above noted streets or any side street along the race route it is recommended that you plan accordingly. If you should need any assistance please feel free to contact the Upper Saddle River Police Dispatch Center at 201-327-2700.
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Thankful for what matters most—getting home safely to the ones we love! This holiday season slow down and stay focused. #arrivesafe #HappyThanksgiving #DrivingSafety #SafeRoadsNJ
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USR Alert: This is an important traffic advisory from the Upper Saddle River Police Department:
The annual USR Thanksgiving Day 5K Run will take place on Thursday, November 28th 2024. For the safety and security of all participants, the following roadways will be closed from 8:30am until approximately 9:45am.
• West Saddle River Road between Lake St and Old Stone Church Road.
• Old Stone Church Road entire length
• East Saddle River Road between Old Stone Church Road and Lake St.
• Lake St from East Saddle River Rd to West Saddle River Rd
If you live on one of the above noted streets or any side street along the race route it is recommended that you plan accordingly. If you should need any assistance please feel free to contact the Upper Saddle River Police Dispatch Center at 201-327-2700.
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Utilities United Against Scams - Home
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Many electric, water, and natural gas customers throughout the country are being targeted by impostor utility scams each day. Scammers typically use phone, in-person, and online tactics to target cust...0 CommentsComment on Facebook
Don’t let Jersey rush hour get you down! Commute with care and share the road! Whether you're driving, biking, scooting, or walking, we're all in this together. Keep the Garden State Safe! #ShareTheRoad #SafeRoadsNJ
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Winter Weather Driving Tips | NHTSA
Winter Weather Driving Tips | NHTSA
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Ways to prepare yourself and your vehicle to drive in winter weather conditions. Learn about changes to tires, batteries, car seats and more.0 CommentsComment on Facebook
International Fraud Awareness Week
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Do you want to host a seminar, write a proclamation or even just post on social media? Find ideas of how you can help spread fraud awareness. Learn more.0 CommentsComment on Facebook
ORANGE AND ROCKLAND UTILITIES URGES CUSTOMERS:
STAY INFORMED AND AVOID BEING SCAMMED
PEARL RIVER, NY November 18, 2024, 11:00 a.m. – As part of International Fraud Awareness Week starting November 17, Orange and Rockland Utilities, Inc. (O&R) is joining forces with more than 150 U.S. and Canadian energy and water companies to help protect customers from fraud. The campaign is spearheaded by Utilities United Against Scams, with November 20 recognized as Utility Scam Awareness Day.
O&R is urging customers to stay vigilant and learn to identify the tactics scammers use to pose as company employees. Scammers often demand immediate payment or personal information, creating a sense of urgency to trick their targets.
“Every year, scammers become more sophisticated and find new ways to trick people. We want our customers to know that there are simple ways to protect themselves,” said Janette Espino, O&R vice president of Customer Service. “Any demand for payment threatening immediate shut off or pressure to give up personal information is an instant red flag. Customers should immediately use the My Account portal at oru.com, available 24/7, to confirm their account status, or call the company directly.”
The following are signs that a person contacting an O&R customer is a scammer:
• People trying to pull a scam often try to sell a customer on urgency. They’ll say company personnel are on their way immediately to shut off service.
• Scammers call customers and instruct them to buy a pre-paid debit card. Once the customer puts money on the card and provides the scammer with the card number, the scammer steals the money. O&R does not accept payment by pre-paid debit cards, MoneyGram or similar transfers.
• Scammers contact customers and demand payment via apps like Cash App, Venmo, Zelle or even Bitcoin. O&R does not support these platforms for payment.
• A person who shows up at a home or business not wearing an O&R ID is not a company employee. An O&R employee will politely show the ID to the customer when asked. If you are still not sure the person works for the company, call O&R at 1-833-460-7059 to get confirmation.
Be aware, scammers who call customers by phone can even make an O&R phone number appear on a customer’s caller ID display.
When a customer gives money to a scammer, the scammer will often claim that the payment did not go through and demand another payment. The company has received reports of customers providing multiple payments totaling thousands of dollars to a scammer.
O&R’s website offers approved options for bill payment. O&R accepts check, credit card or cash at an authorized payment location listed on our website.
Some utilities have reported an increase in utility impostor scams through digital methods, including search engine-related scams. Digital scam tactics include:
• Sponsored ads on search engines that lead to an identical - but fake - utility bill payment page.
• QR codes that scammers falsely claim link to a utility payment page.
• Texts from a scammer claiming to be a utility representative, with a link to an impostor payment page.
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This New York mind your business we don’t need your racist town in our community
As we salute our veterans, let’s also pledge to keep our streets safe. Slow down in crosswalks and look out for pedestrians. #SafeRoadsNJ
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Please be aware of these texting incidents invoking slavery that occurred in surrounding states. Click on link from the Associated Press for further. Information and instructions on bias crimes also appears below.
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A large wildfire in Pompton Lakes, NJ, is causing smoke in our area. If you notice smoke and believe it may be unrelated to the Pompton Lakes wildfire, please contact 9-1-1 or reach out to USRPD immediately.WILDFIRE UPDATE: Cannonball 3 Wildfire - Pompton Lakes, Passaic County
The New Jersey Forest Fire Service remains on scene of a wildfire burning in the area of Cannonball Road in Pompton Lakes, Passaic County.
Forest Fire Service crews continue to improve fireline and are conducting a backfiring operation, strategically burning fuel in the fire's path to slow its advance and assist with containment efforts.
SIZE & CONTAINMENT
🔥 100 acres
🔥 0% contained
STRUCTURES THREATENED
⚠️ 55 structures threatened
✅ 0 structures evacuated
ROADS AFFECTED
⚠️ Cannonball Road closed at DuPont Place
⚠️ Interstate 287 - right lane closed on the northbound side
RESOURCES DEPLOYED
🚒 The Forest Fire Service remains on scene with fire engines and ground crews
🚁 A Forest Fire Service helicopter capable of dropping 350 gallons of water
🚒 Structure protection is being provided by local fire companies
FIRE CAUSE
🔥 Under Investigation
PRESS CONFERENCE
🎤 The Forest Fire Service will host a press conference at 3 p.m. in front of the Pompton Lakes Municipal Building located at 25 Lenox Ave, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442
NEXT UPDATE
⏰ Approximately 3:30 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 9
NO DRONES IN FIRE ZONES
Please remember, “No Drones in Fire Zones - If YOU fly, WE can't!” More info: www.facebook.com/NJForestFireService/posts/pfbid02XeCUXmgBdqXSqbZE3d3roqQb3EFkkFKRD9xkav4VYaHKWzL...
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Helpful Wildfire Terminology
🔥 Wildfire - An uncontrolled fire burning the different types of vegetation that cover the land. A wildfire is considered a “major wildfire” after it exceeds 100 acres in size.
🔥 Containment - When reporting on a wildfire a percentage of containment will be given, which will state how much of the fireline has been completed.
🔥 Backfire - A fire intentionally set along the interior edge of a fireline by Forest Fire Service staff to consume fuel in the path of a wildfire and/or to change the direction of force of a fire’s convection column.
🔥 Fireline - The part of a containment or control line that is scraped or dug to mineral soil.
🔥 Threatened - Critical infrastructure, roads, homes and commercial buildings that are in the vicinity of a wildfire.
#NJFFS #NJForestFireService #NewJerseyDEP
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There were 3 fires today nearby. Mahwah, N. Milford and Pompton Lakes. Wind blew it into our area.
West Saddle River Road between Cherry Lane and Robin Ridge Road will be closed from 7 P.M. until further notice for utility work. Due to utility work, residents may experience intermittent power losses.
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Join the USR Police Department for a Crime & Safety Presentation to learn more about current crime trends and crime prevention tips. Tonight, 11/06/2024 @ 6PM in the Cavallini Middle School Auditorium. Registration is not required to attend.
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Communities across Bergen County have been working hard to increase access to Naloxone in their towns! Following the Resolution from the County last year that added Naloxone to the AED units in all County buildings (including Bergen Community College,) this year, Montvale, Franklin Lakes, New Milford, Upper Saddle River, and Lodi passed resolutions adding Naloxone boxes to the AED units in town. A number of other communities are also working on drafting similar resolutions, hosting trainings, and identifying high-needs areas to install Naloxone. Thank you to all of the individuals who have advocated for these life-saving measures in their communities!
What is Naloxone?
Naloxone is the medication that reverses the effects of an opioid overdose. It is often referred to as Narcan, which is the patented brand of naloxone that is administered through an intranasal (nose) spray. Naloxone is extremely safe, and having access to it can be the difference between life and death for someone experiencing an overdose.
The Center for Alcohol and Drug Resources can provide Naloxone to community partners. In addition, many local pharmacies have Narcan available for free for individuals! Find your closest pharmacy here: Naloxone365: NJ Free Naloxone at Pharmacies Program | NJOIT Open Data Center
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• The FBI’s Behavioral Analysis Unit (BAU) and Office of Public Affairs (OPA) recently launched a Prevent Mass Violence Campaign which includes research and educational information focused on preventing acts of targeted violence.
• The FBI’s Prevent Mass Violence website located at www.fbi.gov/investigate/how-we-investigate/prevent-mass-violence contains valuable information and resources which can be utilized by law enforcement and shared among local community members.
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Join the USR Police Department for a Crime & Safety Presentation to learn more about current crime trends and crime prevention tips. Wednesday 11/06/2024 @ 6PM in the Cavallini Middle School Auditorium. Registration is not required to attend.
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Thank you to everyone who came out to Cider Hill. Pictured is Officer McIntyre and Chief Rotella will future police officers.
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My favorite Officers 👮♀️!!!!
You let these racist department touch your kids. 🤦🏿♂️ unreal defund these racist people bullies being badges think they own slave guns and badges make them force power on people typical ego big head tough guys
Awesome ❤️!!!
